When it comes to gifting both the bride and groom at a wedding, there are a few factors to consider. Your relationship with the couple, your budget, and their preferences all play a role in determining whether you should give a joint gift or individual gifts.
Firstly, think about your relationship with the couple. If you are close friends or family members, it may be appropriate to give a gift to each of them. This allows you to personalize the gifts based on their individual preferences and interests. For example, if the bride is a wine enthusiast and the groom is a beer lover, you could give a bottle of their favorite wine and a selection of craft beers.
However, if you are not as close to the couple or are on a limited budget, giving a joint gift can be a practical and thoughtful option. Consider something that they can enjoy together, such as a gift certificate for a romantic dinner, a weekend getaway, or a subscription to a wine or beer club. This way, they can both benefit from the gift and create new memories together.
It's important to consider the couple's preferences as well. If they have expressed a desire for joint gifts or have registered for items that are meant for both of them, it may be best to honor their wishes. Some couples may prefer to receive one meaningful gift rather than multiple individual ones.
In my personal experience as a sommelier and brewer, I have encountered various situations where the decision to gift both the bride and groom or only one of them has varied. For example, I once attended a wedding where the couple had a shared passion for wine. In that case, I chose to gift them a set of high-quality wine glasses along with a bottle of their favorite wine. It allowed them to enjoy their shared interest together.
On another occasion, I attended a wedding where the couple had different interests. The groom was a beer connoisseur while the bride was more into cocktails. In this case, I decided to give them each a personalized gift. For the groom, I gave a collection of rare and unique craft beers, and for the bride, I put together a cocktail-making kit with various ingredients and recipes.
Whether you choose to gift both the bride and groom or opt for a joint gift depends on your relationship with the couple, your budget, and their preferences. Both options can be thoughtful and meaningful, so choose what feels right for the specific situation. Remember, it's the sentiment behind the gift that truly matters.