What is a fair cash wedding gift?

Answered by Andrew Fritz

As a sommelier and brewer, I understand the importance of finding the perfect gift for special occasions like weddings. When it comes to giving a cash gift, it can be a bit tricky to determine what is considered fair. However, there are some general guidelines that can help you navigate this decision.

First, it’s important to consider your relationship with the couple. If they are coworkers or distant relatives, a cash gift in the range of 50 to 75 dollars would be appropriate. This shows your thoughtfulness and acknowledges your connection to them, without going overboard.

For friends or closer relatives, a slightly higher cash gift in the range of 75 to 100 dollars would be more suitable. This amount reflects a deeper relationship and shows your appreciation for their special day.

If you are particularly close to the couple, such as being a close friend or family member, or if you are in the wedding party, it is customary to give a more generous cash gift. In this case, it is recommended to spend around 100 to 150 dollars or even more. This demonstrates your significant connection to the couple and your desire to celebrate their union in a meaningful way.

Of course, these are just general guidelines and the amount you choose to give ultimately depends on your personal financial situation and the level of your relationship with the couple. It’s important to remember that the most important aspect of a wedding gift is the thought and sincerity behind it, rather than the monetary value.

In my own experience attending weddings, I have found that the couple appreciates any gift, whether it be cash or a physical item, as long as it comes from the heart. I have seen couples who were genuinely touched by a small cash gift because it came from someone who couldn’t afford more but still wanted to contribute to their special day.

A fair cash wedding gift can vary depending on your relationship with the couple. As a general guideline, coworkers or distant relatives can give 50 to 75 dollars, friends or relatives can give 75 to 100 dollars, and close friends, family, or those in the wedding party can give 100 to 150 dollars or more. However, it is important to remember that the thought and sincerity behind the gift are what truly matters.