Do best men get gifts for groom?

Answered by Andrew Fritz

As an expert sommelier and brewer, I can certainly understand the pressure of finding the perfect gift for the groom as the best man. It's an important role that goes beyond just standing by the groom's side on his big day. While your presence is undoubtedly a gift in itself, it is customary for the best man to also give the groom a gift to commemorate the occasion.

Now, I know what you might be thinking – another responsibility to add to your already growing list of best man duties. But fear not, I'm here to guide you through the process and provide some ideas that will surely impress the groom and show him how much you appreciate him.

Firstly, let's talk about the option of organizing a group gift from all the groomsmen. This can be a great way to pool your resources and get the groom something truly special. It also takes some of the pressure off you as an individual, as you can share the responsibility and decision-making process with the other groomsmen.

When it comes to choosing a gift, it's important to consider the groom's interests and hobbies. Is he a enthusiast? A connoisseur? Or perhaps he has a passion for or ? Knowing his preferences will help you narrow down the options and select a gift that he will truly cherish.

If the groom is a wine lover, you could consider gifting him a bottle of his favorite vintage or a wine tasting experience at a local winery. Alternatively, you could opt for a subscription to a wine club, which would provide him with a curated selection of wines delivered to his doorstep on a regular basis.

For beer enthusiasts, there are plenty of options to choose from. You could put together a personalized beer gift basket with a selection of his favorite craft beers, along with some unique beer and accessories. Another idea could be to arrange a brewery tour or a beer tasting event where he can sample a variety of different brews.

If the groom has a taste for whiskey or cigars, you could consider getting him a high-quality bottle of his favorite whiskey or a set of premium cigars. You could even go the extra mile and arrange a whiskey tasting or a cigar rolling experience for him and his friends to enjoy.

Of course, these are just a few ideas to get you started. The most important thing is to choose a gift that reflects the groom's personality and interests. It's the thought and effort that you put into the gift that will truly make it special.

Now, I must share a personal experience as a best man. In my case, the groom was an avid beer lover, so I organized a surprise beer tasting event for him and the rest of the groomsmen. We visited a local brewery where we had the opportunity to sample a wide range of beers, learn about the process, and even create our own custom beer labels. It was a unique and memorable experience that the groom absolutely loved, and it brought us closer together as a group.

While being the best man comes with a lot of responsibilities, getting a gift for the groom is a tradition that should not be overlooked. Whether you choose to organize a group gift or select something on your own, remember to consider the groom's interests and hobbies. Put some thought into the gift and make it personal. After all, it's a once-in-a-lifetime celebration, and the gift you give will serve as a lasting reminder of your friendship and support.